on again off again cycle getting redundant

Hello! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2.5 years. In that time, we've broken up twice. First, briefly, because we did not agree on having children (I want them, he did not), and again (the "big" break up of 4 months) because he made...
23rd August 2014 at 11:10am Read More & Reply… 1 Reply

Hello! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2.5 years. In that time, we've broken up twice. First, briefly, because we did not agree on having...
23rd August 2014 at 11:10am 1 Reply

She's cheated b4. Now she flirts & hangs out w men I don't know.

Been married 8+yrs & have 3yr old son. During that 8yrs she's had sex w 4 or more men. Now I find out she's flirting & meeting men. I don't know if she has sex. She won't change her # or let me meet the men she's txting all the time. I'm at my wits end & d...
23rd August 2014 at 10:53am Read More & Reply… 1 Reply

Been married 8+yrs & have 3yr old son. During that 8yrs she's had sex w 4 or more men. Now I find out she's flirting & meeting men. I don't know if she has...
23rd August 2014 at 10:53am 1 Reply

Is there something wrong with me?

Hello everyone!  I'm new to this forum and I'm a little hesitant to ask or say anything to strangers on the internet as if anyone can magically solve the problem I am facing right now, but here is a bit of background about me for the sake ...
23rd August 2014 at 10:50am Read More & Reply… 1 Reply

Hello everyone!  I'm new to this forum and I'm a little hesitant to ask or say anything to strangers on the internet as if anyone can...
23rd August 2014 at 10:50am 1 Reply

sexualy starved by muy husband

I used to be intimate with my husband almost daily for over 3 years! But for the last year or so he has been basicly absent in that sense. He only have sex if i ask him REPEATEDLY to do so and every single time it leads to an argument and I end up feeling...
23rd August 2014 at 10:43am Read More & Reply… 0 Replies

I used to be intimate with my husband almost daily for over 3 years! But for the last year or so he has been basicly absent in that sense. He only have sex...
23rd August 2014 at 10:43am 0 Replies

Rebound or Not?

    Ok heres an update from my last post.  My ex and I had our last counceling session last Thursday.  She came in and told the therapist that she is done with everything and this was her last session.  I was so pist she str...
22nd August 2014 at 2:12pm Read More & Reply… 0 Replies

    Ok heres an update from my last post.  My ex and I had our last counceling session last Thursday.  She came in and told the...
22nd August 2014 at 2:12pm 0 Replies

Boyfriend had me take a lie detector test.

Ive been with my boyfriend on and off for 5 years. He's white and I'm black. We have a 3 year old together. When we first got together in 2009, he cheated on me with multiple girls and I had no idea until I was 7 months pregnant with our daughter. After sh...
22nd August 2014 at 7:16am Read More & Reply… 0 Replies

Ive been with my boyfriend on and off for 5 years. He's white and I'm black. We have a 3 year old together. When we first got together in 2009, he cheated on...
22nd August 2014 at 7:16am 0 Replies

How do I know, that it's time to move on?

I'm so confused on what to do in the current relationship that I'm in .I've been with my bf /daughters dad for 2 years. When we first started dating everything to seem so good. I had a few people who knew Both of us from work. When we made our relationship...
22nd August 2014 at 4:39am Read More & Reply… 0 Replies

I'm so confused on what to do in the current relationship that I'm in .I've been with my bf /daughters dad for 2 years. When we first started dating...
22nd August 2014 at 4:39am 0 Replies

Ex swinger now struggling with Husbands online flirting!

Ok, so I've been struggling with this for a while: My Husband & I have been married 10years. We have always had a very active sex life and been very adventurous. For a while we tried swinging...when we could fit it in around busy schedules &...
21st August 2014 at 11:32pm Read More & Reply… 0 Replies

Ok, so I've been struggling with this for a while: My Husband & I have been married 10years. We have always had a very active sex life and been...
21st August 2014 at 11:32pm 0 Replies

Got back with my ex again. BUt more confusion.

Hey. 4 years ago me and my ex broke up. We went seperate ways. I went overseas to study and she stayed back home. But last winter break i went back home and met her. She was a mess and falling in and out of love. When we met, regardless of her messy rela...
21st August 2014 at 10:52pm Read More & Reply… 10 Replies

Hey. 4 years ago me and my ex broke up. We went seperate ways. I went overseas to study and she stayed back home. But last winter break i went back home...
21st August 2014 at 10:52pm 10 Replies

my boyfriend always thinks I'm cheating on him

please help. I love my boyfriend very much, we have been together for over a year now and have been living together for 5 months. for our entire relationship he has accused me of cheating on him. he sometimes ask me if I'm cheating on him several tim...
21st August 2014 at 9:58pm Read More & Reply… 21 Replies

please help. I love my boyfriend very much, we have been together for over a year now and have been living together for 5 months. for our entire...
21st August 2014 at 9:58pm 21 Replies

my jealousy over my bfs ex gf is destroying us... advice needed urgently please!

My bf demanded a "break" a month ago after I got upset and insecure that his ex gf was coming to stay the weekend at his shared house he just moved into (his housemates are pretty much best friends with her). Apparently the reason she came was ...
21st August 2014 at 8:30pm Read More & Reply… 15 Replies

My bf demanded a "break" a month ago after I got upset and insecure that his ex gf was coming to stay the weekend at his shared house he just...
21st August 2014 at 8:30pm 15 Replies

My ex-boyfriend found someone better than me?

I found this forum while thrawling the web for a site where I could get help. I know that this post is really long but I really need advice and it is necessary that you know the whole situation in order to give advice. I have been so insecure and depress...
21st August 2014 at 6:35am Read More & Reply… 11 Replies

I found this forum while thrawling the web for a site where I could get help. I know that this post is really long but I really need advice and it is...
21st August 2014 at 6:35am 11 Replies

Does he really like me or is he just hanging around?

Here are points all in order: -He is my biggest crush from church. -We've both grown to mutually like each other over the past year, and started "talking" this year. -This year has been pretty rocky between us. This year was also the year we finally hung ...
21st August 2014 at 4:18am Read More & Reply… 0 Replies

Here are points all in order: -He is my biggest crush from church. -We've both grown to mutually like each other over the past year, and started "talking"...
21st August 2014 at 4:18am 0 Replies

We used to speak everyday, now we aren't speaking?

About 2 months ago i started speaking to this guy online. After a while we exchanged numbers and began texting everyday since then. I wouldn't really know how to describe the 'relationship' between us. We seem to be friends, although we have ...
21st August 2014 at 12:58am Read More & Reply… 0 Replies

About 2 months ago i started speaking to this guy online. After a while we exchanged numbers and began texting everyday since then. I wouldn't really...
21st August 2014 at 12:58am 0 Replies

Disillusioned With The Dating Game

I've just been feeling really low. I've been single five months after coming out of a three and a half year relationship. We owned a place together and lived together for two of those years. It felt really easy and simple getting into that rela...
20th August 2014 at 11:41pm Read More & Reply… 0 Replies

I've just been feeling really low. I've been single five months after coming out of a three and a half year relationship. We owned a place together...
20th August 2014 at 11:41pm 0 Replies