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Ok ladies I was just wondering, in your opinion what is wrong with the majority of men today? Just wondering so other guys can read this and improve themsleves if neccesary.
And why is it all about the men? What happened to all the good women? What about you? Let me guess....you are perfect and every man wishes they could have you? Right? SMDH
Nah. Women have become just as trampy. I agree. In general, Cheating has just gotten out of hand. It's sad sad sad.
They watch waaaay too much porn which leads them to become unfaithful sex zombies. Sex can be dirty, and ur girl can be ur own personal s**t... sex can be GREAT but when bustin a nut becomes a priority regardless of whose feelings ur hurtin, well that just completely destroys what was once a great relationship :,-(
People just get overwhelmed with choices these days.. cavemen times there was only so many places to go and so many things to do.. now theres temptation everywhere.. people just have trouble with the honesty part more than anything.. straying is becoming almost expected.. which is why i stick to ice cream and old movies.
I think what's wrong with men these days is the same thing that is wrong with women these days: technology. Everything is so instantaneous that fewer and fewer people really believe in waiting for the gratification of finding someone who pays high-quality, selfless attention to them; and those who do believe (or want to, or want to believe they believe) are usually the ones who are selfish without realizing it and don't appreciate it when someone appreciates them.
Honestly *sigh* just appreciate yourself. "date" yourself. let yourself know you matter to yourself even if daddy/mommy/Shirly/Jonathan/who-or-whatever-the-heck doesn't. pay yourself the attention you need to know what you really want and what will make you happy. surprise yourself. cry to yourself. laugh with yourself. scold and console yourself. teach and learn from yourself. be with yourself. forgive yourself. be kind to yourself. take walks with yourself. fall asleep with yourself. and above all else appreciate yourself for loving yourself so purely and honestly. If a man can do those things for himself, he can do those things for someone else. the question then becomes "why wouldn't he?" and the burden falls on the woman to earn the man; he already put so much work into learning to love himself so he could love you, how could he possibly love you correctly if you don't already love yourself? Tink about it...
To love correctly , what kind of love is this ?? And tink or think about this ? Or just feel all the emotions involved even if it hurts.
Love is a fire; it can warm your chest or burn down your house. Which one do you think is "correct"? The more you ponder, the more you will learn. Love transcends morality. Love is more powerful than fear, anger or sadness. Love does not vanquish: it conquers. Ah yes um, "think" about it: feel the emotions and work through them rationally. You're a man so use your um, left brain. Or whatever. Just don't hurt the girl on purpose, especially when she hurts you by accident; a lot of the time a good girl and a good guy will go bad for each other because they start playing Olympic-blames (faults-only unstable tennis, insult throwing, discuss-nothing, etc) and if things aren't worked out or are allowed to go too far then they both develop a pattern of feeling good about themselves from belittling their significant other. I'm rambling and I forgot my point.
Remember Women. You are reality and porn is a fantasy.
Men will experience that once. Be strong and do what YOU like.
Remember Women you are reality and the porn is just a fantasy. It will not last.
Men will experience that one day. So be strong and do what YOU like.
Sex and porn have become faaaar too important in their lives. Im a very sexual woman, and I'll get down with anything that makes my man happy in the bedroom, and yet A Lot and Everything is never enough.... sex sex sex... porn porn porn... and im the selfish b***h for not accepting a man just being a man. No. Men have just changed, and that's just how it is now. It should never b accrptable, but what can we do? Yeah..... men definitely have a selfish gratification now that no 1 woman will ever be good enough for.
They have sex as a priority in their lives... I am not an asexual person but women mostly care about the inside... If women seem to be bitches, they just pretend in order to be accepted by men. They think that if they get dressed like whores, they'll find partners... Every girl, every woman is romantic, even if she doesn't show it... There is also a romantic way in men but it's kept inside them... Of course sexual enjoyment is important, but men should wait and not be matso from the first date... And if a man wants a partner, has to wait...
They just want sex..they aren't looking for a partner like most women are
well that isn't entirely true..im looking for my better half...
If they really only want sex and can't give love, let them have their porn and whores.
If that is what they want. Yes it is easy and selfish and certainly not mature.
But women what can we do about this ???
Uh Men? Men aren't perfect but they hardly the "problem" these days. To be honest, I'm not totally sure that these days are any better than "those days". It's all a matter of perspective but
I feel that the whole point of this thread is kinda dumb because women don't want robots. A woman will love you for your quirks, not all the things you have in common with other guys.ac
Right I agree with these words.
Isn't only men its women too.. Some people are just damaged and can't be fixed.
Sometimes a damage can be fixed and sometimes not.
I am a single dad..i barely get my support.. im not an a*s to women..have custgody of my 5 yr for 4 yrs now and it seems like women see that and almost pump the brakes
I know the feeling.. Im a single mum. But hey kids'll keep us tired for years anyway right? i Have an elmo i cuddle and my vice is doritos..so im happy enough i guess. I take my hat off to you tho.. not many men around would step up to the mark these days...
More like, what's wrong with PEOPLE these days?!? Some women can be just as bad as men especially when you involve child support, custody arrangements, alimony etc etc. Just saying and I am a woman!
Well said CCC!!
It's the rules and laws of the society also. They protect the woman and when arelationship with children breaks up the men have to pay.
That's one of the reasons I don't have kids.
More equal relationships are possible in that situation
men nowadays are the biggest cowards...they awaken a woman's desire with no intention of loving her, isnt that great????
all mans are not bad some them are good and some of them are too good
Did you have some bad experiences ?? Because there are good man. I know them.
Nothing is wrong. Time is changing and people change.
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