I met this girl and 4 other friends because we were foreign students and we were assigned to the same house to stay for 4 college years. It has only been 2 months but I’ve gotten into a relationship with this girl. I’d say I like her very much. Then a problem came, her parents came to visit and disapproved our relationship because they think its too early because we only knew each other for 2 months. They forced us to end it for now, and said that if we can still keep feelings for each other for at least one year, they would approve and in the meantime, they want their daughter to explore the outside world since their daughter is in a relationship with me. They didnt want her to spend all spare time with me. So, one year…… After this, I cried in front of her for 3 straight days, she dropped tears after seeing me cry. I literally begged her to keep her feelings for me. We were so sad for 3 straight days (me especially). Then she kinda changed and became happy with my other housemates again (she is a very outgoing person with a positive mind), while I’m being all sad and needy in my room listening to them laugh in the kitchen.
Then I changed, I told myself ‘Hey Delvin, you can’t ask her to keep her feelings for you and promise you won’t love other guys for this 1 year, if you want to be with her you have to win her back! Win her heart back!’
But things are not as easy as it seems, although we go to the same college, but we go to different campuses, hers is 1kilometer away from mine. She walks to school with a male housemate of ours studying the same course (he is in a stable and long relationship with another girl which is back in our country) and i get jealous because I see them getting closer and closer each day. Not only that, I don’t know how to act around her. For now I’m being happy and confident like the old me before this relationship. But i still am attached to her, I still sacrifice lots of time cook her every meal for her just like when we were together and i think i should stop doing this, this will make her realize she needs me.
I really don’t know what to do now and i really want her back but she seems happy just like usual as if nothing has happened. What do I do now? Should i stop cooking every meal for her? Or should i just make the meals simple so it appears I put in less effort and care less about her? Or only cook dinner for her and not lunch? How should I act around her? How do I win her heart back? I am very busy now with my studies and college basketball (in fact the most busy person in the house) but I still keep thinking about her. How do I get her back?