I broke up with my ex about 3 weeks ago, and not in a very good way. It shames me to say it, but when we broke up I flew into a mad rage and injured her. Now in all my relationships, I have never EVER done that, but at the time my grandfather had just died, and in the midst of our arguing she decided to bring him into the conversation and I lost all control. Right after, I broke up with her and she left without much trouble. But about 3 days later, she became kind of obsessive, and kept trying everything from I love you, to i’m pregnant to get back together. Now she says I owe it to her to get back together. My question to you is should we get back together? I do love her, but the relationship has caused some heavy issues with me and relationships, whereas I now have anger issues.