Boyfriend/Baby’s Father cheated w/ my Best Friend

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JKKPsMommy asked 5 years ago

My best friend & I has been pulling away from each other for a while her more so & then me cuz I thought she wasn’t my real friend cuz she never sees me anymore after I gave birth to her ‘goddaughter’ & I can’t party anymore. Finally we ended our friendship & she came clean how she has had sex with my boyfriend a few times from when I was pregnant up until 4 months ago. My boyfriend admitted the truth to me & is sorry & all that & wants to make it better. I’m very torn right now because I would never let myself stay. Having a baby involved doesn’t help. I’m willing to try if he is so I guess I wanted to know if there is anyone out there who has been thru something like this & was able to get past it or made it better. I don’t see much hope but I’m willing to give it a go as long as he comes with me to couples counseling. Any advice would be appreciated. There’s so much more to the story I’m just so exhausted to write it all out. But all in all that’s the just of it. They both cheated on me & I’ve never been more blind sighted.

1 Answers
Casey answered 9 months ago

Hi, I’m currently going through the same exact thing. I found out one year later of the indiscretion. My boyfriend/father of my child slept with my so called best friend one drunken night that they ran into eachother in a group function. I was at home pregnant about 7 months along. They both admitted it to me after suspension. They claim they do not remember anything, he says he blacked out and woke up the next day confused of where he was. I’ve never felt so disrespected in my life. They both kept that secret from me for an entire year. Now our son is nine months is I have left the house . I feel selfish that I’m putting my son through the situation over my personal problems with his father. I love history and I truly do but I don’t know if I can ever get past this. And if it was in any other situation where a baby was not involved I wouldn’t look twice I would’ve left two seconds later. But for my kid I don’t know what to do

Casey replied 9 months ago

How did you get past the entire situation where you able to forgive did you guys get back together ?