So I just got out of a relationship that burnt bright for a short time and crashed and burned just as quickly. Because I was angry with the gent that broke my heart I wasn’t expecting another gent to show interest. I like this one and I’m worried he’ll end up a rebound, how do I make sure he doesn’t end up that way? Also, since moving back in with my mother, I’ve put on a little weight, I’m not huge, but I’m not a twig and all the girls he’s dated so far have been twigs. I’m comfortable with my body no matter what the size, how do I make it clear to him without seeming insecure or making it seem like I think that’s all that matters to him?