I have been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months now. Seems short to fall for someone but I don’t believe that. My previous relationship I had been lied to and cheated on for two years and had no idea. He cheated on me with girls I would have never known. I met nick and we were very open with eachother. We told who we thought were sexually attractive and it does not bother me at all. Well here currently I snooped on his phone and he had been texting his ex girlfriend. Why would he be texting her is what is going through my head. Were always open to eachother. We tell eachother everything. So I confronted him about it and now he makes extremely inappropriate comments about other girls. Including my bestfriend. Finding ways to hang out with her. I’m jealous of my bestfriend and always have been. So now I’m jealous when he is around her. Like she’s getting more attention from him then giving it to his own girlfriend. He picks out the flawes about me that he likes about my bestfriend. Making me insecure. Now he hides his phone. Freaks when I even touch it. He lately said our relationship will get better if we have a threesome. Irritating. I just don’t know if I’m being over reactive or just really insecure.