I have been dreaming about having sex with my ex for about over a year now and I’ve come to the point now where I have had enough and I don’t know what to do. He was my first love and I was with him from the age of 15 to about 17. I have had 2 relationships since then. The person I am with now I’ve been with for 3 years however our sex life is nothing like it was with my ex, it isn’t passionate, he doesn’t pleasure me like my ex did. My ex now has a new girlfriend and this is his first girlfriend since me. I think this has upset me a bit and made me realise I’m not over him, which I guess could be why I’m dreaming about sex with him? I actually messaged him and asked to speak to him as I want to know if he feels the same way still about me. Although I do have a boyfriend and I feel really guilty. Please can someone give me some advice, this is driving me up the wall.