Its not all about what men think of your body or your looks. In life it is important to be honest, do your best, be true to yourself and to treat others as you would have them treat you. Take care of your friends and family and be respectful of others. Being known for your honesty and kindness is very rewarding.

It is important to invest time and energy into enjoying and even loving life because by doing that life will love you back. By being a naturally generous and loving person, people will be naturally attracted to you and wish to be around you.

1. Always do whats right.

Never put your own moral judgement at risk for the sake of another persons greed or wants. Always stick to what you know to be right and you will not go far wrong.

2. Quit gossiping.

Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, and small minds gossip about people. Life is much too short to be lived talking about people, gossiping, and stirring up trouble that has no substance. If you don’t understand someone, ask questions. If you don’t agree with them, tell them. But don’t judge them behind their back to everyone else. Read The Mastery of Love.

3. Make others feel good.

If you want to lift yourself up, lift someone else up. To be happy and free is not merely to cast off one’s chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the happiness and freedom of others. When you put faith, hope, and love together, you can nurture positive ideas, relationships, and dreams in a negative world

4. Encourage others

A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success. We all hit a time when we lose hope and need someone to put their arms around us and say, “I’ve got you right now. You are not facing this alone.” Be that person when you can.

5. Keep positive.

When bad things happen or we are let down by others it is very easy to become depressed and negative. This attitude affects those around you in negative ways too. Try to keep positive and learn from your past experiences. There is always tomorrow to start over.

6. Love the fact you are unique.

Love the fact we are all different. Don’t be the kind of person the strives to be just like everyone else. People are attracted to uniqueness and especially those people that learn to be confident and positive regardless of their differences.

7. Drop the need to always be right.

Try to understand and respect the opinions of others. Even if you think they are wrong, arguing does not really achieve a great deal. It is much better to learn how to calmly put your point across while at the same time respecting the thoughts of others.

8. Be flexible and keep an open mind.

Sometimes what may appear to be a road block or a challenge in life can make you a stronger wiser person. Learn to embrace all the challenges life throws at you so you can indeed grow as a person after each one.

9. Believe in yourself.

Only you can learn to believe in yourself. You can show people by your actions that you can succeed and be trusted but only you can truly believe in your own ability to achieve whatever you want out of life.

10. Be a do-er.

You can make whatever you want out of your life, but first you have to not be afraid to try. We all have to start with ourselves. It is time to walk the talk. Take the journey of making the difficult decisions and taking action. Start removing things from your life that are taking away your happiness, and start adding things that bring joy in to your life. Read Psycho-Cybernetics.

11. Don’t let your past dictate your future.

Let your past contribute to who you become rather than keeping you stuck in the past. If someone lets you down or cheats on your for example. Learn from the experience and ask yourself why it may have happened. It will help you learn to be stronger and prevent you from being let down in the same way again.