Breakups are a terrible ordeal to go through, especially when you are still madly in love with your ex. If your ex broke up with you and you want to give your relationship another chance, then all you need to do is follow these three simple steps to get your ex back.
1. Step 1 – No Contact
Take a step back and stay away from your ex. If you’ve been calling them or texting them (which you most probably are) then you need to stop right away. Your ex is just going to pull away if you keep on pushing them. The fact is, the more you try to convince your ex to get back together, the more they will want to stay broken up. But when you stop communication with them, you give them a chance to miss you and the relationship you had together.
When you stop contacting your ex suddenly, they’ll realise that they will start wondering what happened to you and whether or not you are moving on. When you pull away, your ex will start to push. But you are not going to reciprocate. At least, not yet.
Step by step plan to text your ex back
2. Step 2 – Soul Searching and Self-Improvement
If there is any time to do some self-improvement, it is now. Make some positive changes in your life and start living. There is no point in sitting at home while sulking over the breakup. Going out and doing things you enjoy will give you another perspective on life. You will start realising that even though you want to get your ex back, you don’t need them to be happy.
Making positive changes in your life will give you tremendous boost in confidence. And that confidence will make your ex ten times more attracted to you. This is exactly what you want. Because when you move on to the next step, you are going to need that confidence.
Step 3 – Re-attraction
After being in no contact with your ex for a while, you need to re-initiate contact. A simple text like “Hey, how are you?” or “Hey, haven’t thought of you in a while. How you doing?” should do the trick. Be little flirty over the text messages and try to have fun. Make sure you don’t talk about the past relationship or the breakup over text. You want to use these text messages for fun. You want your ex to associate these text messages from you as something exciting and positive.
After you have been texting for a while, it’s time to invite them out for a coffee or a date. But make sure you don’t call it a date yet. It might make them put their defences up. If you did your homework till now, then your confidence will probably blow your ex away and they will want to get back together.
So now you have read the guide, get going and get them back. I hope it all works out for you. You deserve it.