When someone chooses to betray your trust and humiliate you by cheating, there could be a number of reasons as to why. But who cares! There is not one reason on this planet that excuses the behavior of a cheat. Every person is responsible for their own actions. So after the devastating news has set in, there are two questions to consider.
1. Why did they cheat?
2. What am I going to do about it?
The answer to the first question is obvious. A person chooses to cheat because they do not have enough love and respect for their partner. The answer to the first question can help us re-phrase the second question; how can you get back at someone that doesn’t care about you? So the answer to that question is… Don’t do anything. Don’t waste your time and energy on someone that doesn’t care enough about you to treat you with respect. Get as far away from that person as possible without bothering to explain how you feel.