Listen, just because you have fund a great guy, thats not the end of it. Now you need to read the following advice for how to keep him happy and more importantly, interested.
1. Dont nag him
There is a difference between telling him what you do for a job and telling him ALL about your job. The same applies for any of your hobbies that you suspect he may just not be that interested in. It is ok for him to not share your love of The Vampire Diaries. If he asks you about your hobbies or your work, tell him enough to be interesting without sending him to sleep.
2. Try not to compete
Men do not fall in love with your giant brain, they fall in love with your heart. So show him all of your amazing traits, but not all at once. If you are in a better job or are better at scrabble, don’t rub it in. He will know and really it shouldn’t bother him too much unless you keep rubbing it in.
3. Keep having fun
Just because the dating stage is out of the way, that doesn’t mean there excitement and fun needs to end. Keep sending those naughty text messages. Take the time to enjoy getting dressed up for him and going out on great dates with each other. It is too easy to slump into coming home from work, sitting down to a microwave meal and putting the TV on, or going on your laptop. You need to both make the effort to keep things fresh and interesting.
4. Don’t forget your friends.
When love (or lust) is in the air, sometimes you forget about you old pals that have always been there for you. Not every day and weekend needs to be spent with your new Prince Charming. You can go out with him on Friday and your girlfriend’s party the next night. Men always like it when a woman’s world doesn’t revolve around his — there’s less pressure! Besides, he’s got to have a night to watch football with his friends. So you might as well have fun, too.
5. Keep things sweet and tasty.
Keep you and your place smelling tasty. Always wear some nice perfume so he starts to remember you by your lovely scent. Men love when a women doesn’t smell like, well… like a man. If you end up at your place, lighting some yummy smelling candles is also a good plan.
6. Its ok to let him look… not touch
If you are on your date and he happens to let his eyes linger on a passing booty, you can chime in with a “She is so beautiful, isn’t she?” You can feel good about this because he is on a date with you — and not her booty. Just remember, he has chosen you and you are the one who has him too! This will show him you are confident in yourself and you aren’t going to freak out if he finds another woman attractive. Men are wired to keep their eyes peeled for protecting, and a beautiful woman just happened to walk by. It’s just his inner caveman coming out.
7. Let the past be the past.
Don’t let bad experiences of the past be a reason to fill your head with all kids of rubbish about your new partner. If your last partner was a player, and you imagine the new guy is the same way, it’s not going to be good for you, him or the relationship. So put your baggage from old relationships in the dumpster and be sure to close the lid, and close it tight.
8. Believe in yourself.
If you feel that you are not good enough for him then he will most most likely start to agree with you. You need to be confident and start to realise that he chose you because you are the person he wants to be with.