I have read so many articles, blog posts and books about this topic and they all say the same old boring obvious stuff. In this article I will go a little bit deeper into some of the subconscious reasons men lose interest in women after s*x. I will then explore what women can do in order to prevent any heart break further down the line.
Men are from Mars
Men and women are very different creatures. I know this may sound obvious, but there are so many people that think the only differences between a men and women are physical. This couldn’t be further form the truth. It’s imperative you remember the biggest differences between the sexes are in our minds.
By not considering how a man thinks, the woman can set herself up for failure from the start. Most women set out with the intention for finding a nice guy to date, get to know and possibly start a relationship with. Some guys also set out with this intention too which is fine. It is the other guys that are only after s*x that the woman needs to look out for.
Some men will lie, make up stories and go to great lengths to get a woman into bed. They love the thrill of the chase and can often get a little carried away. Often all the time, knowing at the back of their mind that once they get the girl, they will most likely lose interest and want to move on to the next “targer”. The sad truth is that a lot of guys do this subconsciously without even realising it.
There are some amazing psychological occurrences in a mans mind that could lead him to this kind of behaviour. For example, sometimes when a guy gets dumped by a girl, he will then subconsciously pursue other girls that remind him of her. He may go for someone with a similar nose or the same colour and length hair for example. In other words a past sexual partner or some other unfinished business can control the kind of woman he will be attracted to in the future.
In other cases some men get physically attracted to certain women just because they want to control them, feel superior to them or because of any other psychological reason.
What can women do about it?
Some Middle Eastern cultures that strongly believe in “no s*x before marriage” never experience these problems. In this instance, if the guy was only after s*x, he would very quickly get bored and move on.
In my view Western cultures could learn a lot from this attitude. Women need to learn that putting out too early really is NOT a good move. By being a little more selective and waiting at least a few months before having s*x with the guy, the girl would be able to filter out all the time wasters who are only after s*x and in turn avoid the inevitable heartache.